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Getting mugged is no fun

Monday, December 01, 2003 9:58 PM

So tonight as I was walking from my car up to my backdoor, I got mugged.  Thats right, in my own frigging backyard I actually got mugged!  Some dude walks up to me and demands my wallet.  I gladly handed it over and he ran off into the night, probably never to be found.  Now I get to go through the fun process of canceling all of my credit cards, getting a new drivers license and installing a security light in my back yard.

Although the police did detain two men who were walking near my neighborhood and took me to try to identify them, I felt helpless since I knew that there was no way that I would ever be able to absolutely say that one of them did it.  My back yard is dark and it happened so fast that all I could come up with was a vague, generic description that would fit 80% of those men in my neighborhood.

I have such a hard time understanding how an individual can even have a thought process that is something like “I need money so I guess I can just go threaten someones life and steal theirs...”.  I just don't understand how a person gets to that point in their life.  All I keep thinking about is that I wish I could go back and redo those couple of minutes.  I wish I would have been smart enough to pay more attention, to watch the direction he ran, to be able to tell the police something more than average height, average weight.

More than anything, I pity this person for feeling that robbery is an answer.

 


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Sorry to hear about this happening to you. You did the right thing. You're life is far more important than your wallet. Everybody else, please take note! This is the time of year when robberies increase. My Mother had her wallet stolen from her purse in a grocery store in what is considered a nicer neighborhood in the area. As for the thief, I hope he gets what he deserves ...

Don't let your guard down 12/2/2003 4:40 AM | G

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Wow dude, that really sucks! St. Louis is the 2nd most dangerous city in the nation. I hope you can get everything back together. 12/2/2003 5:18 AM | Jeff Julian

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Sorry to hear that, Devin. At least you are okay and only have the pain of getting your cards back in order. Do get that light in! 12/2/2003 5:52 AM | Amy S

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Crap Devin. That's scary. I managed to get through 8 years of living in NYC without anything like that happening. You have a wonderfully stoic attitude about it. 12/2/2003 6:02 AM | Julie Lerman

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GEEZ Devin! Hope all is well. I was mugged twice in Russia and my apartment robbed once. My car has been broken into around 3 times. Never never is it any fun. 12/2/2003 11:49 AM | Bill Evjen

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MY friend just got mugged walking home... Gun poined to his head and everything... I told him to wait up but it was about to rain, damn i wish i could change time... A GUN RIGHT TO HIS HEAD.... were 16, he took his phone and $4... but its not about the items its about actually robbing someone, i mean what is the point? 8/15/2004 2:19 AM | Bernie G

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Hi
im 13 and i got mugged for the 1st time today.
there were 7 of us
3 girls and 4 boys, they took 3 of the boys phones, one wont hand his over so he got slammed up against the railings with his head an inch away from the cars and he got slapped.
us girls were completly ignored why? arnt we likly to be most vulnerable?
we were with the police for about an hour
has this happeneded to anyone my age? 5/31/2008 5:39 AM | Adele

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i just got mugged today... crappy stuff. me and my 2 buds go jumped by 5 older guys... karma will do its stuff though 10/31/2008 8:27 PM | cam

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sorry to hear about that. the same thing happened to me and my best friend last night. We were walking home from the local supermarket around 9pm when i noticed these two guys(travellers) who i have seen around the area before just standing by a wall across the road, i made eye contact with one of them (which turned out to be the guy who emptied my wallet) and he was just staring at us. I tried to avoid contact by walking by and kept going minding my own business. I said it to my friend who was walking with me and then as i was saying this i noticed that they were walking almost parallel inside the fence across the road. a few moments later out of the corner of my eye i spotted them just on the footpath behind us. I knew there was something up but took no real notice and kept going. All the time i kept saying to my friend ''there still following'' and he said ''yeah''. So we came up to an alleyway almost next to my house expecting something to happen, then i heard them run at us from behind. I was carrying 2 supermarket bags full so i couldnt react and so was my friend so he couldn't do much either. Before we knew it, they had us against the wall and a demand was made for our wallets. Lucky i had only 15euro and some change, but they then threatened us by saying that they would come after us and ''bust us up'' if we called the police! on the other side of the alleyway a car pulled up which turned out to be a man and he had noticed something had happened in the alleyway. He asked us if we wanted to follow it up, so we jumped in. It turned out he was an undercover cop or so im lead to believe so far(he didnt present any i.d, although i saw sheets of paper on the floor with Garda Siochana printed on them). So we drove around and eventually spotted them in a restaurant EATING with OUR money. the cop got out and went inside and confronted them as soon as they realised who he was they bolted out the door and escaped into the night. The cop drove up around their site(trailer park)but to no avail he then took my details,drove us home and said he would be in contact!
Now we are in a position that if we come face to face with these muggers in the street there could be a confrontation. I have to live around here and they (travellers) live around 5mins by foot away so its looking like sometime in the future we are gonna cross paths! So now its really caused trouble for us to try and avoid them and i have to carry a knife which is illegal in ireland for protection in case they come after me for reporting them to the authorities! If they ever do decide to confront me i'm afraid i will make no issue of defending myself with my 10'' knife because i feel if they do chance it a second time the authorities are not doing enough to teach these individuals a lesson- therefore i will have no option but to teach them myself and do a little extra damage to pay for my money loss and the grief they put me through! I still havent heard back on the incident from the police so I am totally vulnerable to being attacked in the street again over something i didnt start. I didnt start it but if they do come back im afraid im going to have to take the law into my own hands and finish it! 12/6/2008 5:34 PM | James

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i was walking up up my street 2/3/2009 9:58 PM | Daniel Wickett

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Ahh this is really sad. My sister almost got mugged today but she managed to escape since they were 3 male teens who were too scared to do it. Also she was carrying a giant item which she could have used as self defence.
I agree with above that i don't know how people get that low that they have to take other peoples hard earnt little money. I hope karma does get them because they deserve it. You can never be in a situation so bad that you need to harm innocent people.

And James, it was really stupid to get with that person in the car. Because my mother was mugged once and after 2 guys came up and helped her. They said stuff about how they saw the car plate number and called the cops on the spot for her.
The thing is i believe a lot of muggers get someone to come up to the victim after and pretend to have reported the incident to the police. That way you dont report it yourself, and they have a better chance of getting away with it. They're all in it together.
What's worst is that they have your info too!
I hope the streets become more safe overtime, why live like savages. I'm really tired of hearing all the horrid crime lately. Just be more aware and if you notice something isn't right, call the cops or get somewhere safe immediately! People have died in these situations. 10/12/2009 5:38 AM | hello

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Botijos 10/29/2009 8:43 AM | Beeniashems

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Hey, I am 15 and i got mugged for the first time last night. No one ever tells you what to do in this kind of situation. Me and my friend were on our own walking down a street in our local village it was about 8:00 and this girl and her friends came across the street and threatened to beat us up for no reason. She then asked for my friends bag, my friend didnt give it to her. We tryed to walk away but she shoved us up against the wall and demanded for the bag, at this point i got out my phone to ring the police(it was a brand new phone) i had had enough but then she snatched it out of my hand and said she would give it back if my friend gave her her bag. I said noo and she ran off. The poilce could do nothing obviously except take a description and hope for the best.
To be honest i dont know how someone my age could do that, what kinda of parents raise people like that. And the worst thing is she'll always get away with it. 10/30/2009 4:51 AM | Emily

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As a 16 year old living in London I've now been mugged 8 times; with only a few leading to proper violence. Yesterday I was walking back from a kebab shop to my friends house with a group of girls when a Turkish guy jumped out in front of me and my friends. He was followed by about 10 others (mostly English and Turkish with one big black guy for defence) and proceeded to demand stuff from us. I tried to walk away when a small guy (about 14) headbutted me in the face. It didn't hurt because he was so small but I did get a nose bleed. They then rifled through my pockets while I was dazed. They took my phone out and I managed to grab it from them, only to be punched in the stomach by the black guy.
Amazingly they gave me back the phone after I explained that I needed it (wow) and left with only a few coins.
I got back to my friends house where it turned out a male friend of mine had been punched into unconsciousness for warning a girl to put her purse away "because he could see a 'some black guys'".

Not cool man.. :D 11/14/2009 7:05 AM | Alex

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