Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

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posted @ Wednesday, February 02, 2005 9:40 PM

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Left by Steve Hartzog at 3/22/2005 8:44 PM
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Schweet. If you read my politics section - you'll see I talk a *lot* of smack! Also, I assumed smart punk chicks were the norm...

Anyway, thanks nikki! I'm also very glad to hear that a goth chick could like a vanilla guy like me. ;)

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Left by Eide at 3/23/2005 1:44 PM
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Dude, I would suggest you try match.com if its still in operation. That's where I found my guy. Since he is a straight arrow geek and I am about as bizarro as they come it might be the place for you. Also there is gothmatch.com (I think referred to by an earlier poster?) and suicidegirls.com. Surely there are more such sites out there but this at least gives you an idea of what to look for. EHarmony is an example of what NOT to look for - I mean come on! Have you seen their advertisements?! They are in the business of hooking up bland middle America types with other bland middle America types. I seriously doubt you'll be finding chicks with pink hair amongst their pool of eligible spinsters.
Good luck!

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Left by Steven Hartzog at 3/23/2005 3:11 PM
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You know, I never would have thought that this entry would be my most read. So, I should go to GothMatch.com huh? Thanks. :)

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Left by Zack at 3/29/2005 4:32 PM
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I love goth chicks!!!

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Left by bc at 3/29/2005 4:47 PM
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try something like nerve.com-- they have a personals section that has a number of goth/punk types. i met one there myself.

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by BlackMoon at 4/3/2005 12:09 PM
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Hey im like the only goth around my college and that sucks but i have finally met someone "the norm" who likes me as i am so you hang in there and you'll find someone totally awesome that will steal your heart
i promise

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Steven Hartzog at 4/12/2005 10:32 AM
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Thanks BlackMoon. I went out to nerve.com and have found a few interesting candidates. Now if I can just get off my ass and post a profile / respond to these hotties. Obviously no guarantees - but at least there's a chance.

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Left by Pip at 4/15/2005 11:17 AM
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Hey, I'm not sure if I'm even allowes to comment on here...but i'm a goth/punk girl and just wanted to say i really like geeky guys xx <3 xx Missi

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Left by Pip at 4/15/2005 11:17 AM
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allowed* I'm not stupid I just can't type!!

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by ummmm a metal head at 5/8/2005 3:20 AM
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well there is some split in punk girls and all there is: punk/goth,just punk,rockabille,gothic,vampire goth....there are types of punks in punks....im a metal guy myself and choose rob zombie over good charoltte

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Left by ummmm a metal head at 5/8/2005 3:27 AM
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so choose carfully you dont want a santanic bloodsucker do you?...i myself have many goth girl friends and punk friends..maybe somday ill show them to you..wel um good luck!!!!

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Left by martha at 6/3/2005 1:25 PM
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okay..............so you like goth and punk chiks....hm.and you consider yourself a nerd...thats pretty cool..so you wanna meet some.try going to websites like vampire freaks .com or try looking for gothic hang outs...or shows your probably get lucky there...but you know what some guys would change their apperance you know..for example your a nerd....right...so all you have to do is at least try dressing like a gothic guy or a punk and chiks wuold like you...but you dont have to change the way you are just to get girls to like you dude........it was a nice article thuogh expressing your feelings \m/ cool

xoxox
broken heart

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Lafna at 6/6/2005 11:13 PM
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Hey Steve, i am in the same boat as you. Im grad A geek and am damn proud of it. over the past few years i have adopted a punk/goth appearance, black clothes, spikes and chains anywhere i can put em, eyebrow peircing, the whole bit... i myself havent had much luck in finding my punk love but im holding in there. Dont let my lack of success discourage you though ive only just started and its also a whole differant game at the ripe young age of 19 :P Anywho, good luck to you Steve and thank you everyone who gave left some advice

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Left by sacredrain at 6/7/2005 10:40 AM
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You are absolutely right !!! Punk girls are awsome!!! And the "Dark" goth girls are gorgeous!!! . I would say you have very good taste in women .
Try suicidegirls.com
Good Luck

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by morganscorpion at 6/11/2005 6:33 PM
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Well, you sound perfectly sweet to me. I'm a Goth woman, from the generation you wouldn't dare call a chick. 43 to be precise.

I always go for men with brains.

Shame I'm in the UK because you sound like the kind of man I'd like to meet.

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by imaginary spirit at 6/23/2005 5:24 PM
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hey- sounds like there are actually some guys out there who like people like me....if i was to really accept a label. if you were going to try and get a goth/punk girl, then you'd ind of have to do some background info on their likes/dislikes. if u were to just go out and dress goth/punk then you'd most likely get called a poser...i'm seriously not trying to bring u down, but help u instead....i'm a goth/punk chick but i know i'm way too young 4 u, regardless, people like us learn to recognize those who are ummm...."fake".....we usually don't go for the normal "clones" like most guys, so a creative side would come in VERY useful....good luck...

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Steve Hartzog at 6/23/2005 6:55 PM
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Thanks _imaginary spirit_!

I'm definitely not goth... and everyone can see that from a mile away. However, I have thought of getting a tattoo. Maybe some sort of tribal/indian thing on my shoulder... but it would be for me - and not to be a poser.

As I said, I'm not goth - but I definitely like goth chicks... and to me _morganscorpion_ sounds just my type, whether she's a goth chick - or a goth woman. :)

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Pritman at 7/21/2005 12:04 PM
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Oi.....gothic makes me laugh but i still pay homage to them cuz its gods creations.
Boots n Brace oi oi oi cheers! but goth scrams away when Punx Radicals r around muhAHhHhHh''

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by shay adams at 8/8/2005 10:33 PM
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Check my profile tell me what you think. Psycho Billy girls arn't bad either...

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Will at 8/16/2005 7:51 PM
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Hey bud if you wnat to meet punk girls get SUBMERGED in the punk culture so what if your geek they wont care how youy dress if they do there in it for the fashion punk is about thinking for yourself and as long as you do that and hate bush and cheney your in

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Left by Donald "The Rose" Hayn at 9/4/2005 4:08 AM
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sup, personally i think punk and goth girls are the most beautiful on earth. they aren't afraid to be themselves. My advice is to absorb the culture and go punk yourself, the more punk you become, the easier they will be to getfor you.

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Left by arTHEpunk at 10/16/2005 12:34 PM
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i deff agree wiht the coment above ..and like do soemthing drastic get some percings get a funked hairstyle most oif all dont worry about what other ppl think of you ....haha punk girls rock
lol
peaceout \m/

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Jack at 10/30/2005 11:41 AM
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Okay the guy who started this is saying all girls with piercing's and what not punk, and all girls who wear all black goth.....neither of punk or goth is a fashion statement, it's nothing of a fashion statement, just to clear that up
but yeah girls who look like that i find the most attractive too...

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Paul at 11/5/2005 8:39 PM
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you are so right, Goth and punk women are beautiful. The tatoos, piercings, etc. WOW! I love it too...

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Left by Emma at 11/9/2005 2:43 PM
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Lol, i like geeks and i'm a goth....if there's anymore like us then imagien the next generation ^-^ it'll rock.

Feel free to email me...i get bored and lonely "~"
Lookout4crows@yahoo.co.uk

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Paul at 11/12/2005 5:29 PM
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someone needs to start a chat or BB for this, so people can talk and meet. Geeks4Goths!

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Left by PJ at 11/12/2005 5:44 PM
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there is a google group

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Richard at 12/22/2005 8:55 AM
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Hey dont worry you dont have it as bad as I do. I love goths and punks grils but I dont hate the goverment, most goths & punks do and because of that I am ushuly seen a the bad guy but I love wemon who have cerativaty and imagnation in art and writing and I fonnd that in more goths/punk more then non-goth/punks. I would love to be with that type of gril but I cant change my veiws just for one pretty gril and I cant say I haved much luck finding any who eather respect my veiws or (heaven seens to forbid) agree with me. Dont get me wrong I dont love the republicans I just hate both republicans and Democrats and its seems these days to be a Punk you have to be a Democrat, I cant do that. I am just saying this to let you know that you probly have a better chance at finding your gril then I do. Dont give up and when you find her dont let her go or neglect her or misstreat her or something stupid like that.


Sorry for my bad spelling.

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by Stephen at 12/30/2005 6:30 PM
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Wow... there are alot of us! I don't want to start off by dismissing the comments/advice of others but, I think there is a better approach. I am into girls who live the gothic life and am not a goth myself. Its not a disadvantage at all. Having your own opinion, style, and outlook on life is how most gothic ladies will recognize you as genuine. Just realize that its important to share something in common with them. (a.k.a. Obviously, you will both share an affinity for the gothic style)

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Left by Stephen at 12/30/2005 6:36 PM
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Now, the next time you see a gorgeous gothic woman, walk up to her and introduce yourself. Its really that simple! They're not some unreachable breed of being. Let her know that you think she is beautiful, then, ask her out on a date. You may be very surprized by how flattered she will be.

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Left by Richard at 1/3/2006 8:44 AM
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I love goth and punk wemon but since we are talking about wether they would date a non-goth, would there be any that would actully marry a non-goth?

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Left by Heather at 1/26/2006 7:08 PM
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I was reading a few of the comments and I saw that in most of them, their key advice was to change your appearance. That'd be a big no. You don't want the chicks to think you're as "hardcore" as them, and then when you find a winner have to tell her that you only dressed like a goth/punk to attract her, and I really doubt that if you've gone 32 years without dressing like a goth/punk, you're not going to want to start now. Wow, that was one hell of a run on sentence. Anyways, I think that the best way to go about finding your dream woman is to just browse around (maybe the local hot topic, music store, or even walking down the street) and if you see someone that catches your eye, strike up a conversation. Don't be shy, she's not going to bite your head off, and you never know, she could be Mrs. right. Good Luck!

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Left by -KaTz- at 5/29/2006 7:27 PM
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hey!! i'm also a punk girl and I love rockin!! yeah!! I like a guy who is gentleman and sweet....

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Left by beautiful mind uk at 7/19/2007 1:41 AM
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glad to hear theres love for the geek, speakin from experience ppl act as if i am a weirdo with books, well 2 degrees before im 25 kinda makes the smaller mind a little uncomfortable!

so let them watch in awe................express urself!

# re: Punk Girls, Goth Chicks and eHarmony

Left by William at 7/20/2007 12:29 AM
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Hey, everyone. How's everyone doing? I was just browsing the internet for information on a similar subject as this one and decided to drop a line. I adore punk chicks. I have Avril Lavigne as my wallpaper on my notebook. I know a lot of punk chicks believe she is a poser and I mean no offense to your lifestyle, but I like her look. I love the Converse All-Stars, black clothes, dark makeup under the eyes, and partially dyed hair look. I have no idea how to go about meeting one. I wouldn't classify myself as a nerd. I am intelligent and I enjoy reading, but I also have a very active social life and I get out a lot and try to experience all the world has to offer. In all my endeavors I have yet to go to a concert and I think it'd be great for my first time to be with a cute punk chick. I will never pretend to be something i'm not, so I can't say i'll become a punk, but it's definitely inside me and I respect the lifestyle and would like to learn more about it. If anyone is looking to talk and make a new friend or whatever, hit me up at wtbnospam@yahoo.com

# motha' fucka'

Left by shit maker at 6/2/2008 7:15 PM
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shit everything u fuckn say, so i dont like u n u dont like me, whatss a problem jerk???

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Left by Tony at 1/25/2009 5:19 PM
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Hello all, I seem to have stumbled on another google gem of a topic here. My search for how to meet punk girls paid off as all the posts here have great options and opinions. I am a tech head, geek, intellectual for the most part although I do have some more trendy friends as well. Over the last half year I have found a great place to hang out and meet people from the punk/goth circles. This is my favorite place to hang out now, no judgement, laid back atmosphere, smart people, and the girl are sexy, beautiful, and have more personality than can be imagined. Everyone seems more in tune with a top philosophy of one of my favorite authors "follow your bliss" - JC. I won't change who I am just focus on what pleases me in others and the things I choose to do. If there are any more good options to choose from where I can go to meet/interact with the women we find so amazing please let me know pleasuregiver8480@yahoo.com or myspace.com/tony808184

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Left by DeathReaper at 4/16/2009 10:11 PM
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Hi there i am a goth guy and i fall under the geek section, thou sum would wonder how that is i'll just say i spend allot of time in front of a pc and worships the ground goth girls walk on, if any of you have some advice about how i can find my fair lady clothed in black pls give me a shout my email is jasper.esterhuizen@gmail.com

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Left by RichardRoxas at 7/8/2009 3:57 AM
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Hey, I was googling on places to meet punk/goth girls and I just had to drop in on this blog. The aforementioned websites were great information, but I haven't gone to them yet. I could label myself as a geek/nerd but I'm pretty social and such. I just never had any real goth/punk friends. I love their lifestyle, the music, and the clothes, but I like a lot of everything else. However, it's the tattoos and the piercings and creativity they have that lure me in. If any of you know any good spots to meet, send me a message at Kando_Revenge_Soul@hotmail.com Thanks in advance. I love them! <33333

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Left by mabel at 11/10/2009 9:06 AM
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you people are asome i finally find a web site where i can find gothic people like me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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