One of the most difficult things that many tech people have, are problems with relationships and communication. I was recently forwarded a document that outlines two types of relationships. I found it very appropriate to every type of relationship I have had. Parent - child, significant other, boss - employee, employer - employee, co-workers, friends. I hope you'll read over it and evaluate yourself and the relationships you have. If you find that your boss or employer is selfish, perhaps it's time...